Posted by Anonymous on September 23, 2010 · 8 Comments
I used to love myself… Not in the narcissistic way that you’re probably thinking of, but in a different way – the way you’re supposed to love yourself. Loving yourself can be hard, especially when you’re as masochistic as I am… Self-love is so important. I remember my mother used to always tell me that … Read more
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Posted by Anonymous on May 10, 2010 · 4 Comments
I’m a pretty adventurous person, but rarely am I an initiator of things from a romantic standpoint. I prefer to sit back, let things happen and see where they take me. From there I will decide if I want to take things further… There is no point, no moral to be gained by reading this … Read more
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Posted by Anonymous on December 18, 2008 · Leave a Comment
I am here to introduce you to a new term – pseudo-date. What is a pseudo-date? It’s like a test trial, a precursor to the real thing. We are testing the waters to see if we want to date each other. Amusing, no? Technically, this is our second “pseudo-date”. The first would have been when … Read more
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Posted by Anonymous on December 16, 2008 · Leave a Comment
Today I had my third therapy session. I have to admit, I was worried that we would wind up focusing on one issue, and harping on it forever, but she has let me take control of the direction of our conversations, which is amusing because I tend to go off on tangents, and numerous times … Read more
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Posted by Anonymous on December 8, 2008 · 1 Comment
I’m just straight venting now. I went to a party (which is rare for me), and offered to play bartender for the night and the host agreed. Now I don’t drink, but I wanted to try my hand at mixing alcoholic beverages. If I say so myself, I didn’t do too bad. I got a … Read more
